Yes, it will be a very big success for doggers when they eventually get down with a girl of their dream that they got through these online dogging dating sites. But one thing many fail to realize is that they got these girls to talk to them even in the first place with their dating message. The truth about the whole issue is that first impression is the cardinal point of the whole thing, and whenever the impression created in the fist place is not good enough, no body talks to you in the long run. You will then ask yourself what the most important moment in your dogging life is. Here the most important and decisive moment is when you send your first emails or message to the fellow doggers.
To give you the best information on these, we tried to test many websites so as to get the things that people said in their first message that got them the desired response. All others were not responded to, just as the sites are mostly scam.
The wrong and right message 1
The number one failed first message went this way
“HI jenny, I read your profile and found out that you are beautiful. I also found out that you have a great smile and are quite witty. We have a lot of things in common. I like playing basketball and I discovered you also like this. Can we play together and when will this be?”
This is one of the messages that failed because this person talked about themselves too much, and there is no new thing inserted. The same old habit of playing basketball is what he is coming with.
The next message read
“Hi Jenny, I have heard much about how basketball makes people go gaga when played well, but I don’t like it and have not experienced such. Is it really true that one can get so excited with this? What does it feel like watching the game of basketball, and do people like you who know how to play basketball ever feel free to teach others who don’t. I just want to know? Maybe I can also teach you some good banging”.
This talked much about basketball other than the two. It left an inquiry which she must answer, and it got the desired reply. This is exactly what to say on a dating site.
The truth about it all still remains that women are so numerous in these dogging dating sites. But still, you will find out that every single woman out there is being wooed by almost half of the men who signed up on the site. The way you have thrown your net open and is looking at every woman on the site is the same with other guys, and the end result is that each girl gets loads and loads of these messages.
Make it custom
The only thing that guarantees you that she will be swept off her feet and develop interest in knowing this person is when you make the message custom. It must be in your own personal words, and nothing will ever make it look like those things she has been hearing from others. Even when you are saying the same thing that has been said to her, and which has even become a traditional dating message, you have to employ the following things, as they trigger serious interests from women.
The three tips
The number one is intrigue, which will get her interested immediately she reads your message. The next thing is humor which will always make her attracted to you, and want to be with you, while the next is action which will convince her on what to do, and that is to respond to your message.
Call to action
Most times, there will be an indirect call to action with serious authority and not an open ended one. When considering the first message and what to say on a dogging site, we also tested another website and we saw one message worked while the other did not work.
The second right and wrong message
The first message read
“Sup girl? You looking’ fly as hell. How about you give me your digits and we can go hookup tomorrow night?” This got no reply from the girl, and I don’t think it will ever get any reply even in the next ten years.
But the message next read
“Hi, to be frank with you, your profile picture got me crazy when I first saw it, but I eventually discovered that you even love comedies, baseball and rock and roll. This even made me forget how pretty you are. We love the same kind of music and sports and not only that, I am even feeling the match that we can make and I really want you to marry mean. Hey, I love to chat with you and get to know you more. But I can only do you if you are what your profile says. If you are, let’s chat tonight by instant message. Only if you are what you profile says”.
Here, she has been given a challenge and a task to prove that she is what her profile says, and even if she is not interested in you as a person, she will like to get the feedback from you whether her profile really says what she is. And during the date, you should expect such questions as,” okay seriously, do I look my profile”?
The last right and wrong message
Another message that was a complete no is the one that read
“Hi I am James, and my hobbies include reading novels, playing ps3 games, and going on a picnic with my family which has become a family tradition. It is very wired that I am a graduate of philosophy but am now into IT. If you like chatting, let’s do this by the evening on open chat, waiting”
The least you can get with this is deleting it from her box. But when we tested another person that got answers from the same person, we discovered that such dating message that tells the girl what to do will receive an instant reply. The number 3 of these is the one that read
“Actually you are not supposed to open the message you are reading now, and that means you have violated a rule, and that is rule number one. Apologies, right? OK accepted. But you have to do one thing to appease. Meanwhile, you are beautiful. But that is not what attracted me to you. I got interested because I want to sleep on the same bed with you one day, telling you stories about how stubborn you are. Yes, let’s chat about this at night”
The curiosity that this message portrays will always leave her thinking of what it will be like hearing these stories from you while, sleeping naked in your arms. You are almost done with the dogging, once you get her on this type of mindset.